Never thought....

I never thought that M would want to talk to me ever again after the way we broke up 6, make that 7? years ago. No, I guess it was just 6.
Anyway, he texted me last night- almost exactly 2 years from the last time that I talked to him.
He wants to see me.
Ugh.
Im too nice to ignore him.
But then he tried to make plans with me, so I artfully dodged them.
And then he said something like "have a good day."

All this just after I had gotten rid of the last 6'4'' country boy in my life.
For a couple of brief weeks my life was nice and uncomplicated- as far as guys.

Although, last week was J's bday and the last time we actually talked I said "talk to you later" to which he responded with "I hope so" and then no acknowledgement when I wished him a happy birthday. Ungrateful wretch.

Back to M, though.
One of his first questions was asking if I was married. Really? He has known me for 6 years does he not know that I am not like the girls around here?
Its the little things: the little things are what attracts you to a guy and the little things will drive you up a wall, in a hurry!
All I can say for certain is: thank god he's in BG and not here... I can avoid him better this way.
Yes, even when I dont want to see people I have a hard time saying "I dont want you in my life, go away" just carefully avoid any and all ultimatums.

Man, I think I was starting to enjoy the simplicity of life without guy issues. I mean sure there's A- but hes gay (and hey that rhymed). And there's T- but he's my husband and if you read one of my recent post you know I'm not kicking him out of my life. Theres S (formerly I), but it seems that that stage might be passing a little bit- though he may always be an ideal guy- the exotic fantasy, so to speak. Wait, get your mind out of the gutter, please and thank you.

Wow, for a while there I was just me. I like that. Lets do that again, k?
Or you know, lets meet this IT guy that my friend who was just recently married wants to set me up with. Ok. I'm up for that. :)

Here's to loving the life you are living. To simplicity.