So I went to a Halloween party dressed up as Lara Croft. And almost immediately after I got there, a guy came up behind me and started saying things like "uh huh" and "oh yea" I got the distinct impression that he was admiring my, um... assets. My first reaction was to ignore him- which is what I actually did. And then later, he said "wanna sit on my lap" as I was walking over near him, looking for something. To say I was uncomfortable would be an understatement. Don't be sly with me, dont appreciate my assets without talking to my face, and for god's sake, dont wear a mask if you want me to think fondly of you- I dont like when I cant see people's faces.
And then I did see this guy's face- he was actually pretty attractive, and he did talk to me and was pretty nice. My bad first impression was smoothed over... or something like that.
But then I thought about it... more and more...
Yes, having a guy appreciate my assets was kind of nice- it doesnt happen often. But then again, it was gross and made me feel like decking the guy. Talk to me, to my face. Dont just be impressed by my body, be impressed by my mind, my intellect, by what I have to offer. Talk to my face, not my butt- because my face is more likely to talk back.... just sayin.
Yesterday, I thought "man, I just really dont know how to act when someone admires me". Today though, today I know that when someone talks to my face, I will react differently. I mean dont get me wrong, Im not that good with face to face interaction, but when someone sticks with me, is willing to break into my bubble, I'll talk to them and I'll be nice and who knows, maybe a connection might even be made.
But you gotta say hi first... I'm not good at making the first move. Haha.
At least I know my limitations?
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